PORN CULTURE AND SEXUAL ABUSE IN LIFE
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PORN CULTURE: POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE?
Pornography began to emerge in the 1800s – when cinema was budding. Different from the artistic nudity (erotica) that appeared between 7200 and 5200 BC, pornography focuses on the purpose of enhancing the sexual pleasure of the consumer through erotic images of the human body, as well as sexual activities [7].
Over time, the porn industry has grown, and many countries have legalized it, such as Japan. Japanese Adult Video (JAV) was born and approved for circulation in the years after World War II. At that time,
Japan's population declined by nearly 2 million, which led to the aging of the population age chart. Therefore, the Japanese government decided to legalize pornography to stimulate the sexual desire and feelings of the population, especially women, and promote procreation [2].
On the positive side, porn not only stimulates emotions but also provides sexual indications that consumers can refer to adorn their personal sex life [5]. On the other hand, according to research from author Michael C. Rea, pornography is more associated with negative concepts such as for-profit sex, the objectification of people, or sexual oppression.[1] Similarly, author Diana E. H. Russell has shown that control and violent sexuality have characterized pornography. They greatly influence the emotions and thoughts of the consumer.[7] From this, we can see that the consumption of porn culture in general, and porn in particular, is not inappropriate. However, selection and careful consideration are essential factors that everyone needs to consider when setting foot in this culture.
THE FORMATION OF DEVIANT THOUGHTS & ACTIONS
Thanks to the remarkable development of communication, access to pornographic publications is easier than ever. In Vietnam, where not-yet legalizes the pornography industry, adult films such as JAV are still quietly consumed and popularized. We can see pornography and sexuality creeping into every corner of our daily lives, from jokes and stories to gossip in our circle of friends to public content on social media.
"Porn" can be considered a healthy culture if and only if consumers draw a clear line between movies and real life. However, a segment of the masses has been too deeply immersed in what happens on the screen, gradually forming distortions in thinking and action. In another speaking, the "salvage ideology" has heavily influenced the audiences. The idea of "salvation" promotes the role of men in sexual activities where men understand women's bodies better than they do. In addition, adult films always portray male characters as masters of the game and great contributors to bringing pleasure and happiness to women [2]. In contrast, they often consider female characters in porn as "objects or "lust" that aim to satisfy men's desires and desires for control [7].
From adult films, a section of young people legitimizes their vulgar speech and behavior by thinking that they are knowledgeable human beings, "messiahs" who bring pleasure to others, or they mistakenly believe that the legalization and popularization of pornography will go hand in hand with legitimizing his indecency in real life. According to research by author Diana E. H. Russell, 25 to 30 percent of boys find satisfaction in watching scenes and have a feeling of wanting to try to rape others [7]. In addition, up to 50% of men experience sexual harassment with eyes, words, or even violent gestures when they see the attraction of others. In addition, when they see emotional consent regardless of whether the other person wants to develop physical intimacy with them at that moment or not [7].
Nowadays, it is not difficult to see many young people using sex as a media play factor in the content on social networks, especially Tik Tok. Moreover, some people give themselves the right to insult and harass others. A few years ago, perhaps you have not forgotten the case of a famous fan page with hundreds of thousands of followers who posted jokes about sexual harassment on the Cat Linh train. Many audiences also bring jokes and sarcasm about cases of sexual harassment on large fan pages and groups. And then, short-sighted thinking and behavior are justified by the excuses that "it's just a joke" or "we legalize JAV, so we should normalize these thoughts."
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WHEN PORNOGRAPHY NORMALIZES SEXUAL VIOLENCE
Porn culture gradually becomes one of the causes of sexual violence – from action violence to verbal violence. From inadvertent jokes or thoughts, adult movie addicts turn sexual violence into targets [3]. They become aroused and obsessed with porn actions and form a desire to apply to their lover, partner, and even strangers without caring about their others' thoughts. More specifically, they expect their lover or partner to be as seductive and erotic as the actresses and actors in the film, forcing others to accept their sensitive speech and rough sexual actions because they think this is normal. [4]. The truth is, what happens on screen never reflects real sex life properly. On the one hand, during the production of adult films, the production team can ensure a certain safety and mental comfort based on the uses of camera angles, effects, or other tricks. On the other hand, these emotional and satisfying adult films sometimes contain a lot of sweat, tears, and humiliation from the actors.
Pornography creates false thoughts and affects the psychology of those who experience violence. Many victims, especially women, readily tolerate acts of violence, assuming these violent acts are normal, like "stealing" – the act of removing a condom during sex. In addition, many people develop low self-esteem and torment that leads them to force themselves to be more erotic or try to accept sexual "innovations" regardless of whether they are comfortable and happy with it or not.
In short, do we fully understand these things and ensure our partner's physical and psychological safety before forcing them to approve of what we learn from porn? [4]
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Thanks to the remarkable development of communication, access to pornographic publications is easier than ever. In Vietnam, where not-yet legalizes the pornography industry, adult films such as JAV are still quietly consumed and popularized. We can see pornography and sexuality creeping into every corner of our daily lives, from jokes and stories to gossip in our circle of friends to public content on social media.
"Porn" can be considered a healthy culture if and only if consumers draw a clear line between movies and real life. However, a segment of the masses has been too deeply immersed in what happens on the screen, gradually forming distortions in thinking and action. In another speaking, the "salvage ideology" has heavily influenced the audiences. The idea of "salvation" promotes the role of men in sexual activities where men understand women's bodies better than they do. In addition, adult films always portray male characters as masters of the game and great contributors to bringing pleasure and happiness to women [2]. In contrast, they often consider female characters in porn as "objects or "lust" that aim to satisfy men's desires and desires for control [7].
From adult films, a section of young people legitimizes their vulgar speech and behavior by thinking that they are knowledgeable human beings, "messiahs" who bring pleasure to others, or they mistakenly believe that the legalization and popularization of pornography will go hand in hand with legitimizing his indecency in real life. According to research by author Diana E. H. Russell, 25 to 30 percent of boys find satisfaction in watching scenes and have a feeling of wanting to try to rape others [7]. In addition, up to 50% of men experience sexual harassment with eyes, words, or even violent gestures when they see the attraction of others. In addition, when they see emotional consent regardless of whether the other person wants to develop physical intimacy with them at that moment or not [7].
Nowadays, it is not difficult to see many young people using sex as a media play factor in the content on social networks, especially Tik Tok. Moreover, some people give themselves the right to insult and harass others. A few years ago, perhaps you have not forgotten the case of a famous fan page with hundreds of thousands of followers who posted jokes about sexual harassment on the Cat Linh train. Many audiences also bring jokes and sarcasm about cases of sexual harassment on large fan pages and groups. And then, short-sighted thinking and behavior are justified by the excuses that "it's just a joke" or "we legalize JAV, so we should normalize these thoughts."
WHEN PORNOGRAPHY NORMALIZES SEXUAL VIOLENCE
Porn culture gradually becomes one of the causes of sexual violence – from action violence to verbal violence. From inadvertent jokes or thoughts, adult movie addicts turn sexual violence into targets [3]. They become aroused and obsessed with porn actions and form a desire to apply to their lover, partner, and even strangers without caring about their others' thoughts. More specifically, they expect their lover or partner to be as seductive and erotic as the actresses and actors in the film, forcing others to accept their sensitive speech and rough sexual actions because they think this is normal. [4]. The truth is, what happens on screen never reflects real sex life properly. On the one hand, during the production of adult films, the production team can ensure a certain safety and mental comfort based on the uses of camera angles, effects, or other tricks. On the other hand, these emotional and satisfying adult films sometimes contain a lot of sweat, tears, and humiliation from the actors.
Pornography creates false thoughts and affects the psychology of those who experience violence. Many victims, especially women, readily tolerate acts of violence, assuming these violent acts are normal, like "stealing" – the act of removing a condom during sex. In addition, many people develop low self-esteem and torment that leads them to force themselves to be more erotic or try to accept sexual "innovations" regardless of whether they are comfortable and happy with it or not.
In short, do we fully understand these things and ensure our partner's physical and psychological safety before forcing them to approve of what we learn from porn? [4]
RESPECT – THE KEY TO A HEALTHY CULTURE
Indeed, what is on the porn screen cannot teach us knowledge about our sex life. The undistilled reception of such culture can easily lead us to misunderstand the nature of films designed to satisfy curiosity and pleasure derived from instant stimulation. [5] The value of this culture is believed not to lie in the naked images we see but in how we receive, think, and apply rationally to our lives. [5] Real life is always a stark difference from life on screen. The exaggerated forms of sex on film can be very tempting, but in reality, it is not certain. One study has shown that among 14 sexual practices such as public sex, sadism (BDSM), partner swapping (Swing), group sex, etc. Most women are only aroused by 3 of the 14 categories, while men are significantly higher [5]. In addition, more than half of the women surveyed expressed that they prefer to enjoy body lines or movies that are gently neutralized between actors (such as lesbian films). Because of the standards and desires set by men, they are still trying to meet more "heavy" demands. [6] So, before you want to do anything with your partner, make sure your partner is comfortable with what you like. Respect is the key to healthy sex.
"We're not saying everyone who watches porn always wants to rape someone else. However, obsessing over porn gives a sense of entitlement to sexually violent words or acts," said pornography researcher Professor Gail Dines [6].
Toxic sexual thoughts still exist and appear frequently. We need to remember that the popularity and legalization of pornography do not come with the legitimization of sexual violence, both in actions and words. Porn culture is not bad, but the negativity caused by the masses has been slowly transforming this culture. The solution is to accept and respect the differences between movies and real life.
Indeed, what is on the porn screen cannot teach us knowledge about our sex life. The undistilled reception of such culture can easily lead us to misunderstand the nature of films designed to satisfy curiosity and pleasure derived from instant stimulation. [5] The value of this culture is believed not to lie in the naked images we see but in how we receive, think, and apply rationally to our lives. [5] Real life is always a stark difference from life on screen. The exaggerated forms of sex on film can be very tempting, but in reality, it is not certain. One study has shown that among 14 sexual practices such as public sex, sadism (BDSM), partner swapping (Swing), group sex, etc. Most women are only aroused by 3 of the 14 categories, while men are significantly higher [5]. In addition, more than half of the women surveyed expressed that they prefer to enjoy body lines or movies that are gently neutralized between actors (such as lesbian films). Because of the standards and desires set by men, they are still trying to meet more "heavy" demands. [6] So, before you want to do anything with your partner, make sure your partner is comfortable with what you like. Respect is the key to healthy sex.
"We're not saying everyone who watches porn always wants to rape someone else. However, obsessing over porn gives a sense of entitlement to sexually violent words or acts," said pornography researcher Professor Gail Dines [6].
Toxic sexual thoughts still exist and appear frequently. We need to remember that the popularity and legalization of pornography do not come with the legitimization of sexual violence, both in actions and words. Porn culture is not bad, but the negativity caused by the masses has been slowly transforming this culture. The solution is to accept and respect the differences between movies and real life.